Oct '267 min read

How Do I Track What I Owe People and What They Owe Me by Email?

What You Owe, Kept. What You're Owed, Found.

Two directions, handled two ways: a standing list of the replies you owe, and the things other people owe you found when you ask or every Monday. How alfred_ does both, and guides for the specific things people chase.

Quick answer

How do I track what I owe people and what they owe me by email?

  • Replies you owe: alfred_ keeps a standing list on Home and leads your morning brief with them, until you answer
  • What other people owe you: ask "who am I waiting on?" any time, or turn on the Chase what I'm owed routine for a list every Monday
  • For one kind of thing, such as change orders or tax documents, write your own routine in a sentence
  • Follow-ups are drafted when you ask and sent only when you approve them

The list you owe stays in front of you. The list you're owed comes when you ask for it.

The short answer: the two directions work differently. The replies you owe are a standing list: alfred_ keeps them on Home and leads your morning brief with them until you answer. What other people owe you is found when you ask (“who am I waiting on?”) or every Monday with the ready-made Chase what I’m owed routine. For one kind of thing, such as unsigned change orders or missing tax documents, write your own routine in a sentence. Nothing is sent to anyone until you approve it.

Two lists, two jobs

A reply you owe. Someone asked you for something and you haven’t answered. These slip because you read them, meant to answer, and the inbox moved on.

A reply you’re owed. You asked someone for something and they haven’t answered. These slip because, from the inbox’s point of view, nothing happened. There is no new email to remind you.

Most trackers handle one well and the other badly. A flag or star catches the first if you remember to set it. A “Waiting” label catches the second if you remember to apply it every time you hit send.

The replies you owe: kept for you

alfred_ reads each email as it arrives. When a person writes to you, you haven’t answered, and a full working day has passed, it reads the thread and keeps it if an answer is actually expected: a question, a decision, a document. Newsletters, receipts and no-reply mail don’t count.

  • Where you see it: the list on Home, and the “What needs you” section that leads your morning brief.
  • When it leaves: when you reply, when you mark it done, or after 21 days with nothing new.
  • Weekends: working time pauses from Friday at 6 PM to Monday at 9 AM, so Friday evening mail isn’t late by Saturday.

Details are in Follow-up tracking.

What other people owe you: found when you ask

Three ways, from lightest to most specific:

  1. Ask. “Who am I waiting on?”, “has Acme replied about the proposal?”, or “which vendors haven’t confirmed Saturday?” by text or in the app. alfred_ checks what you sent and what came back.
  2. Turn on a ready-made routine. Chase what I’m owed runs every Monday at 8 AM: it reads what you sent in the last week and lists what you asked people to do, send, review, confirm, decide or pay that is still outstanding, oldest first, each with a short follow-up ready. Proposals waiting on a decision does the same for quotes and proposals over 60 days. See Ready-made routines.
  3. Write your own. “Every Friday at noon, email me which contractors haven’t sent this week’s timesheet.” It runs on the day you choose and lists only what is still missing. See Make your own.

When you want to follow up, ask for the nudge. alfred_ writes it in the thread and shows it to you; it goes when you approve it.

Guides for the things people chase

Each of these walks through one list: the sentence, what comes back, and where it stops.

The honest caveat

alfred_ reads the inboxes you connect, up to six Gmail, Outlook and IMAP accounts, and nothing else. A request sent from a colleague’s mailbox is on their list, not yours, and something answered by phone or inside another tool looks open until someone says so in the thread. It judges each thread from what it says, so check the first few lists against what you know. The ready-made Chase what I’m owed looks back one week; for longer, ask or write your own routine. It reports; it doesn’t chase. alfred_ is a paid product, and routines run on the credits your plan includes; plans are on the pricing page.

Keep client work from slipping through the cracks

alfred_ is an AI assistant for client-facing teams. Each teammate gets help with email, calendar, replies and follow-ups.

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Frequently asked questions

Does alfred_ keep a list of the replies I owe?

Yes. When someone writes to you, you haven't answered, and a full working day has passed, alfred_ reads the thread and keeps it on a list on Home if an answer is actually expected. Your morning brief leads with the same emails. A thread leaves when you reply, when you mark it done, or after 21 days with nothing new.

Does alfred_ keep a list of who owes me a reply?

It finds them when you ask, rather than keeping a standing list. Ask "who am I waiting on?" or "has Acme replied about the proposal?" by text or in the app, or turn on the Chase what I'm owed routine, which every Monday at 8 AM lists what you asked people for in the last week that is still outstanding, oldest first, each with a short follow-up ready.

Will alfred_ follow up with people on its own?

No. A follow-up is a reminder, not a sent email. alfred_ drafts the nudge when you ask, in the thread, and it goes only when you approve it.

Can I track one specific kind of thing, like unsigned change orders?

Yes. Write a routine in one sentence: "Every Monday at 7, email me the change orders I sent in the last 30 days that the client hasn't signed, oldest first." It reads your sent mail and each reply, attachments included, and lists only what is still waiting.

What about things I promised other people?

Ask: "What did I say I'd do this week, for whom, and is there a later email showing it done?" alfred_ reads your sent mail and lists each commitment with the person and date. For a Friday list, make it a routine.

About the authors

Written byPranav MishraAI/LLM Engineer at alfred_

Pranav builds the agents behind alfred_, the systems that watch your inbox and calendar, keep track of what is waiting on you, and surface what actually needs a response. He runs alfred_’s head-to-head field tests against other assistants.

Reviewed byConnor FataFounder & CEO of alfred_

Connor is the founder and CEO of alfred_, focused on making personal assistants accessible to business operators and individuals so they can focus on what matters and what’s important.

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